Envy, Jealousy and Related Sins

respectable-sins

  • From Bible Study 5/17/09
  • based on the book Respectable Sins by Jerry Bridges

I. ENVY:

  • the painful and often time resentful awareness of an advantage enjoyed by someone else (Covetousness is nothing more than wanting that same advantage for ourselves.)

Conditions for Envy:
1. We tend to envy those with whom we most closely identify.
2. We tend to envy in them the areas we value most.
(We may not even want the better circumstance of our neighbor, we just resent their having them.)

Is it Serious?

Romans 1:28-29 And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper, 29 being filled with all unrighteousness, wickedness, greed, evil; full of envy

Galatians 5:19-21 Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: immorality, impurity, sensuality, 20 idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, 21 envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you just as I have forewarned you that those who practice such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

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Alistair Begg on Jealousy, Envy, and Selfish-Ambition

  • From Truth for Life “Such Wisdom”
  • Envy- to resent the advantages enjoyed by others
  • Jealousy – 1. intolerance of rivalry  2. afraid of someone becoming equal or superior to us
  • Selfish-Ambition – the inclination to use divisive means, unworthy means for promoting ourselves

LTW: "the Good Side of Discontentment" ** not archived

  • Not all discontentment is mad
    • Discontentment in our walk, prayer life, etc lead us to improve in these areas
  • 10th commandment: covetousness
    • Craving for what someone else has
  • CD’s”
    • Covetousness is deceptive
    • Contentment is delightful
  • If your values are based on material things, there will always be something better
  • Playing the comparison game leads to misery
  • 2 ways to react to a roadblock, ie there is an opportunity for two blessings:
    • Opportunity for God to show only He can fill the void in my life
    • Opportunity to place our trust in God
  • Do not waste our pain and suffering , learn from them
  • God wants us to be successful, but if it is our only aim in life, when we get there, we will not be satisfied

Stott – "The Cross of Christ"

“The Cross of Christ” pg 57:

  • “Nobody is ever envious of others who is not first proud of himself”